We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this article. An essay posted on the sex blog How To Make Me Come has given some very, very specific and expert tips to those heading south with their mouth and wanting to know how to lick a woman or person with a vagina out. So naturally, we thought it important to flag up for anyone who might need a little hint. PSA: these magical tips are relevant for anyone with a vulva, not just women as the post's title implies. So fill your boots! Step 1: Make your way south of the border.
It sounds vulgar when you put it that way, but it is what it is. They do. They go nuts for great oral sex. There has to be some clitoral stimulation either before or during penetration for an orgasm to happen. When men ejaculate, their desire to continue having sex decreases significantly. Men tend just to stick it in and forget all about the foreplay.
In terms of HIV this is very low risk. Theoretically transmission is possible but there has never been a well-documented case of transmission. Studies which have followed up couples in which one partner has HIV and the other does not have not identified any cases of HIV transmission due to cunnilingus the vagina being licked. The theoretical potential stems from the possible presence of HIV in vaginal fluids and menstrual blood.
To make the mysteries of the clit a little less intimidating, we asked a bunch of people with vaginas what they actually want sexual partners to do to their clitoris. I can make myself orgasm in seconds. Not feeling rushed makes a massive difference as well.